You should try this
Or not
I learnt the hard way, and due to how hard I learnt the lesson, anytime I'm about to give in again, the lesson rings aloud like the annoying alarm that disrupts your sweet sleep between that 4 am to 6 am.
Alarm that you use your hand to set by yourself 🙄
"Give in to what exactly?” Keep wondering, laughs in sheer excitement at you.
And Truthfully, I've thought about ways to communicate an important principle relating to the lesson I learnt to you, but I've not just got the words amd after so many attempts, i stopped trying.
Take me to court if you have the mind 😏
When I was about to give up totally, God said, "My daughter, my daughter, I've seen your labors and I have come to reward you"
Okay, okay, you've caught me. God didn't say that in an audible voice but what He brought my way shows His mind towards me. He brought me a solution.
Sing along with me: “I have a Father, Almighty father…”
Now permit me to present that solution to you.
But before I tell you what it is. What you should try (or not, not my problem),
What exactly have I been talking about since? Because I know you're already planning how to beat me in your head any day you come across me with the way I keep you in suspense.
It is not my fault, but before you finish the plan, here is it ooooo 🌚.
How can you say NO unapologetically to things you don't want?
The hard lesson I learnt in a not so pleasant way was how to say NO to people.
I didn't know how to do that until it started to become a big discomfort on my part and as much as I'm being helped to be generous and loving, I also don't want to be everywhere always.
And after a very good experience, I learnt how to say NO in due times but I didn't have the words to communicate the lessons to you.
Until James clear showed up, you don't know James Clear ke? What are you doing with your life? Sips bitter leaf drink, yuck!!!
And since the words have come, I'm here for you.
Maybe you've been finding it difficult to say NO to people, well you can keep saying Yes everytime or try this.
If you'd like to get better at saying no, try this:
Keep a list of things you say no to.(Bold)
Then, whenever you ignore a distraction or turn down an opportunity, add it to the list.
As the list grows, you begin to feel a sense of accomplishment for your ability to say no and remain focused on what matters.
And that my friend is how you can learn to say NO.
You should try this again for the last time
Or not. Not my problem, or maybe it is.
And don't you dare say NO to me.
I'm not on the list of people you should say no to 😏😎, if not, don't let me catch you on the streets of Lagos or wherever you are.
To greatness and seeing beyond.
The Billionaire Writer 💜